Mr Nice Guy epistle 3 ( Nice Guys Mistakes )

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Mr Nice Guy Epistle 3 ( Nice Guys Mistakes )

It's  been almost a month since i broke up with my ex and i obliged to share my knowledge about Mr Nice Guys and helping the Mr Nice Guys land on their feets using my blog medium. Both of us splitting up started like a joke, until now i could not believe it.

I have lots of friends who also had some experience of being dumped by their ladies after being so nice to them, their time, energy and money are been wasted because they invested a lot on this girls not knowing that, that was not a proper way of getting a girl.

My last experience was the most shocking one, i was so surprised and i had to access what happened, what did i do to her i asked, what was the mistake, in what scenario that led me to this big severe heartbreak i got, which i was unable to comprehend, tho i was a mr nice guy, during the process i endured a lot of agony, especially when her friend told me she was about getting into a new relationship with other guy, i was unable to hold my breathe that day.

I remember quite well when she bodily told me, look "Achievenine i hate your attitude, i don't like you, i want nothing to do with you again, don't ever on your life text me again". it was sounding like a joke to me, mind you that same mouth of her's once called me a nice guy, a good guy, a caring one on our first week of partially dating, i was not too surprise at first, because i thought she was joking, but to an extend she blocked me on whatsapp chat, and she has not been my first lost. so i was not bothered nor to be really surprised.
Then i realize there must be some reason about this whether it is a curse on my family that is affecting me, i want to know.

I did what most mr nice guy we do at first, asking a woman for an advice, that is a big mistake to ever be done.

I asked her friends whats'sup, what is happening and she advised me to be nice, kind, caring, humble, gentle etc you can name them......

As soon as i took her advice, i lost my ego, and that has put me in hell today and i never had the chance to get my girl back.

In Mr Titus A short story, we discussed on how he got a girl, he cared for her, just like i did for my ex, because of the nature of women and on how they think, it does not really mean the girl is bad or wicked, but  because of women nature, she loses attraction of love for him, and i also talked about attitude evaluation of a Mr nice guy and i brought up some few points of important Mr nice guys attitude.
Upon seeing attitude evaluation of Mr nice guy, you must have now know the nice guys mistakes when it comes to chasing moments, starting from being too available, too caring, nice, lacking of confidence and most especially letting her become the man in decision making.

Women are weaker vessels and should be treated as such, no man should lose their values or ego's because of a woman, i bet you, you can't please them.

Some nice guys do some mistakes of been so genuine and sincere when chasing her and if without showing any attitude of misery towards her, i bet you, you have no chance for her.

Sometimes it's so obvious that when you wants something so bad, you end up losing it, so why are you wasting your time in going after her alone, i mostly advice guys, we have many crush, go after seven or ten and i bet you, you we not have time for all and you will be more valuable in the eyes of all but am not trying to encourage you to cheat, when you're engaged, try to cut contacts.

Mr Titus A always text her at night before bed, morning before breakfast and sometimes at office, during working hours and he lost his value of been so important to her, like copper, copper is very very important to earth compare to it follow competitors gold and diamond, but those competitors are rarely found on earth and that is why they gained more value compare to copper.

let me tell you a short story of two young men Sam and steve.

Ruth was a beautiful girl, an independent and a hard working girl, on sunday, she went to a church service, were she met sam on the way.
Sam with little confident immediately approached her, luckily for Sam, he got her contact and he bath her with compliments. Happy ruth smiled and went to church on her way back from church, she met over confident Steve, who approached her and got her number without any compliment or much excitement in his face. Ruth was wondering why, but she headed home, upon getting home Sam texted, they both spoke for at least 4 hrs getting to know there self better.
next morning Sam texted with good morning greetings his angel etc... they spoke for a long time and Ruth was like "talk later am off to work." At work he texted, when she returned they still spoke and at this moment ruth was wondering what happened, why is Steve not texting. On tuesday morning Sam again, with his good morning sweedy, how was your night etc
on tuesday evening, Steve texted to introduce himself, Ruth was so happy to talk with him for the first time after one hr of chatting with her he went offline, that Tuesday evening Sam asked ruth on a date by saturday and ruth agreed to go on a date by weekend being saturday and during the week Sam and other men who were lucky to have ruth's number kept texting her, next day being wednesday, Sam started from morning with his usual good morning greetings and in the evening, he was telling her how he is looking forward to Saturday etc....
But in as much as this, Ruth was missing one person which was Steve.
On friday evening luckily for ruth, steve texted and asked her out on a date on saturday and she was so happy and she was so happy to meet him up the next day not considering the date she already gat which was the nice guy who always text her, not appreciating his efforts and time.
She considered Steve of being a gold and Sam of being a copper and she was so aware Sam we always be there and they can reschedule, that is why she did not appreciate much of his time.
At the end of the day Ruth cancelled her appointment with Sam with some silly excuse and she head off with Steve...
without knowing she was with other guy, Sam continued his mr nice guy attitude and he immediately rescheduled for next weekend, which she continued to disappoint.



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